Say NO when you mean NO...

 Its been a wonderful day, we took a long walk with the dogs they love it, so no complaints from them. We smiled at everyone we met, and Im telling you it worked, people smiled back.

I also took a big decision to day and said NO to a job that was offered to me, I did not think that was what I was looking for, the decision is mine and I take full responsibility, I feel like it will lead to something so much better.

Its a big step for many people to learn to say NO it has taken me some time to learn that, it somehow makes you feel stronger when you say NO, not to be the negative one, but to stand by your self, when you feel something is wrong, it's not something that interest you, or you just don't have the time to take part, there can be a lot of reasons for your NO, and you should not feel guilty, its your decision your life and your responsebilety to life your life as honest and good as you can.

Have a good evening, and take care.

You are responsible for your own live

 I know we have that bad habit to blaming others for all the bad things that happen in our lives and that's truly understandebale how else would we get through all our mistakes, because we do a lot of mistakes through our live.

But no matter how we look at it, we are always responsible for all our decisions and that's why we also have to take the consequences of our decisions, that's how it is no matter what......

 

We are our own makers in our lives, so if I decide that from now on I will look at everyone and everything with a positive mind, will that chance something for me, you think? Im pretty sure that it will, I think it will first and foremost make me feel so much better and that will attract positivity towards me, I have experienced that when a stranger smiles at me when I am out walking the dog, it makes me feel happy, so why not smile to each other all the time,  what harm can that do, some people are lonley and don't have so many around them and if you give them one smile it could make there day, warm them inside.

Im very sentimental today I know and I just feel like writing so that is what I do, I want so batly to make a different in all this negative situation we are going through now.

Look at the bright side and love your self, take extra good care of your self so that you will be able to give to others and take care of our loved ones, that's very important to start with our self.

I believe in us, together we will come through this time and we will be stronger and so much better in sowing our neighbor that we care, as well as each other. 

LOTS OF LOVE AND CARE FROM HERE💗

How about a little positivity.....

 I find myself in need of writing and share my thoughts, you may agree or you may not, that's all right. 

I know that this past times have been realy hard on many people and I'm not talking it down or disrespecting it in any way, I just think we need some positivity in all these negative and difficult times.

I think that the news people instead of spreading fear and hopelessness they should maybe focus on what we some individuals can do to make our lives better,  that's known that, the ability of the immune system to function normally decreases with stress, and inadequate diet, the healthier life we live and happier we are we thrive better, people are watching TV to get informations about Covid 19 and that is very good we should all be aware of the situation, and take all the precautionary measures in use, but now were that's is said, could there not also be some more motivating news to people,  like how important it is to be more active, exercise more, and that our diet is a big part of our health, perhaps that would help us, or at least give us more possibilities to overcome this horrible Covid and make os stronger in mind and body, I do not mean that we all should be going into fitness club absolutely not. 

I'm talking about for example, a good walk in nature or run for thous who prefer that, do some exercise at home, and I think that if we really put our mind to what we are eating, are we getting the vitamins we need at this time of the year?  it is different between season what we need, in the autumn and winter we tend to get colds and influenza is more , so way not try to eat more healthy food that will give us the vitamins we need, and I'm quite sure that positive attitude, and enjoying our life is likely to support the health of the immune system, so what I'm trying to say here is,

 MORE POSITIVITY IN OUR DAILY LIFE IS BETTER AND HEALTHIER THEN ALL THIS FEAR AND STRESS-CAUSING INFORMATION.

Thankfulness

 

 

I think I don’t have to mention that this last 5-6 months has taken its toll from everyone and everything. I also know that it’s been harder for some of you guys, and I really hope that your life is getting better and that this times of uncertainty soon will be over, all my love to you all with hope’s it soon will be over.

I in all this confusion got to live the happiest day in 10 years when all my children got together for a sunny beautiful day, what can one ask for more, everyone healthy and well and really enjoy the day, I’m so thankful, I know that’s nothing to take for granted, so from now on I’m not going to complain I have a fantastic life and family and that is something to be thankful for every day. 

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Updating......

O what a beautiful morning, O what a beautiful day.......🎶🎶🎶

It's been a while since I was here, but it is because I have been busy with family which is the best thing ever ❤️ It's also the fact that the garden somehow lets me forget time and place, and then suddenly it is 29 of June 🌱🌸

As you know, I'm a beginner in all this gardening, started few years ago with no knowledge at all in that area, and I can't count all the mistakes I have had to face and don't let them stop me from continuing. 

Every little flower that blooms gives a wonderful satisfaction, I get very excited, I welcome the flower, talk to it and thinking it for the joy it brings, and when the tomatoes start to peek out, then I call all the family to experience it with me, that's a time to celebrate, don't you think ?

The gardening has a healing effect on me like I have said before and when I feel that something is good for me, I want everyone to experience the same, so I can go on and on about my small and big victories, people just have to endure it😃🌺😃

The pictures are a little prof of how much I have learned, hope you enjoy❤️

Have a wonderful day and if you are on summer vacation enjoy to the fullest ❤️

My precious......

 

Now when we are going through very upsetting times were people were fighting for there lives and that was hard enough for us all to be witnessing, we now have to witness people fighting for their rights right to exist, not being killed just because they have the wrong color, I wonder how long is this going to be, then I mean racism can't people just respect another like we are?

If we want the best for our family then we need to change this thinking, pas it on to our children and grandchildren so that they will have a save future.

At a time like this one can't avoid thinking how precious our little families are and how important it is that we the grown-up teach the children about equality, we are all the same inside, human beings, longing to be loved, seen and heard as we are.

All my live I have worked with children and their attitude is often something we can learn from they don't see colors they see human being and it's there they start getting to know the person.

Let's try to do that,  we all have the same rights and we all want to live a save life, without always have to look over our shoulders, in fear of being treated unfair or with violence.

LOVE AND JUSTICE FOR ALL❤️🙏❤️

I'm here again....

The last week's we have been working hard in the garden getting all the plant's ready to come out of the greenhouse and into the vegetable garden, it's very exciting to watch the growth, in the start I was going out there every five minutes🤓 

The thing is that when I'm working in the garden I kind of forget that the situation we are
in gives me a little ”time out” and I can feel the does my good, the same if I take a walk in nature, the stillness clears my mind and I'm filled with peace and safety, nature is still here after all, I'm so glad

grateful  for

that ❤️

I told you that I would show you what we have been working on in the garden so let's get to that,

We welcoming everyone to our little paradise 😍

My bee-friendly flowers which I hope will grow up to be able to attract many bees

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This one is getting there 🌸🌸

This is our Tomato house
we plan on growing a lot of tomatoes here 🍅its build out of recycled materials and we are very proud of it, we have left to work with the surrounding area but we will get there be for to long.

Here is more of my bee-friendly Flowers. 🌺 

We have painted the house white and that looks so much better it was a hard work and I'm so proud of myself for doing it, 💪

So now, 

The sun is shining my family is with us so we have nothing to complain about.

Love ❤️ and a lot of kisses, hugs  and everything we are not allowed to do these days ❤️🌺❤️

We are getting there....

I am so hopeful, happy and excited for the opening of our community I feel like we have done so well this past month, people have shown that they take responsibility for their fellow citizens and that's something to be proud of I think, don't you?

Now, what have you been doing in this lockdown? This is what I have accomplish,

Someone had thrown these wonderful chairs away, 

 ONE'S TRASH IS ANOTHER ONE’S GOLD

I took them home, glued and screwed together and then I painted them in this beautiful Azure blue color, I felt a little French atmosphere in the garden with that color.

I have also been gardening a lot, for the first time I have a greenhouse which is built from old windows there I have found peace and quiet and I can stay there for long time.

And here you can see my glory, I'm doing a lot of mistakes in the growing process but also some good things, I learn from the mistakes and I don't get annoyed, just like everything you start in life you will do mistakes but I take them as a process in the learning.

Next time I will show you what I have done to try to attract bee to my garden, some kind of a

BEE FRIENDLY FLOWER PLACES🌸🌸🐝🐝

That's also something new and I have no idea if it's going to be a success, time will tell ❤️

Until next time, stay save💖

There is a light at the end of the coronavirus.....

Now when the sun is shining and the trees are blooming I really feel like there's a light at the end of this horrible coronavirus, and how important is that ‼️We will conquer this and rise again stronger than ever with more sympathy, compassion, more love and understanding for others, I believe after all we gone through, we will be better than before to recognize the needs of others and take care of each other.

We have to make something good come out of this, don't let it defeat us.

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I know there are many some have lost their loved ones and I can't tell you how sorry I'm for their loss, all my love and condolences to them may God be with them 🙏 

Stay strong and safe and love one another 

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Keep the positive.....

 

Picture taken at Jægersborg Deerpark. 

Dear friends I have to admit that I really have to use all the resource to maintain the posetive and good mood this days, feel like I have done everything I possible can here at home, how much can one clean, was, orden your closets, plant everything that is ok to plant at this time of the year, go for walk everyday with the dog (that I do anyway, virus or not) so now I realy have to use my creativet to keep myself over the water, and hold out this isolation, but at the same time, I'm very brought to live in a country that is dealing with this horrible virus in a very effective way, taking it seriously and having press meetings often enough so that we feel that we all are helping each other out of this difficult situation.  

The danish people love to meet and have it "hyggeligt" like they say, and always when they meet friends they give a big hug, they are very sincere and open in communication, so for them to keep a distance not touching I believe is hard for them, I really hope that after all this they will continue to give big hugs and be open and sincere, for that is what I like so much about them, but of course we all have to keep the hygiene in the highest and thats only good for us all, but keep on hugging and making this fantastic "hyggelige" times together its so important to maintain happiness.

Stay save out there lots of hugs from me to you💓

This times....

Hello all my wonderful friends out there ❤️ I really hope you are well and all your loved ones 🙏 

This times, is a extreme wake up call for all of us, in various forms of things, suddenly we have a lot of time to be together with our loved ones we are locked in our home where we suddenly have to be all day long, that is challenging for many of us, we are not used to have so much time together ❤️

I urge you to use this time to get to know one another in a new way, be playing together, be silent together, make jokes, dance make some training together be creative make things from martial you used to through out 🎉

We will come through this together and when we do I think it is so important for us that we maintain those positive things that have brought us together, get something good out of this horrible virus, 

don't let it defeat us❤️

Take care of one another, show respect and a lot of love ❤️